In life, some wounds take longer to heal, and sometimes, the opportunity for closure slips away before we realize its importance. Recently, a Liberian woman named Faith Potter shared a heartbreaking message through a friend, expressing her remorse and regret for not forgiving her ex-boyfriend, Simon P. Dennis, before his untimely passing. Simon had spent five long years pleading for forgiveness—a plea that Faith was unable to grant while he was alive.
Faith’s message reads:
“Dear Simon P. Dennis,
I hope this message finds you in peace. I want to express my deepest apologies for not being able to forgive you before you passed away. I carry a heavy burden of guilt for not reconciling with you while there was still time.
I regret not being able to let go of my anger and resentment, and I am truly sorry for not extending forgiveness when it was needed most. I hope that you can find it in your heart to forgive me, even in my absence.
I will miss you deeply and wish things could have been different. Rest in peace, Simon. 😭😭😭😭”
This message has stirred deep emotions among those who have read it, highlighting the profound impact that unresolved conflict can have on our lives. It’s a powerful reminder that holding onto anger and resentment can rob us of the chance to heal and move forward. Faith’s words, filled with sorrow and regret, reflect a truth that many of us grapple with: the difficulty of letting go and the pain that comes with unresolved feelings.
Forgiveness is often viewed as a gift we give to others, but in reality, it is also a gift we give ourselves. By choosing to forgive, we free ourselves from the chains of bitterness and allow room for healing and peace. Unfortunately, Faith’s story shows how unforgiveness can linger, creating wounds that only deepen with time.
Faith’s heartfelt message serves as a poignant lesson for us all. Life is unpredictable, and the time we have with our loved ones is finite. If there’s one takeaway from Faith’s experience, it’s that we should strive to resolve conflicts and extend forgiveness while we still have the chance. Holding onto grudges can leave us with regrets that are hard to reconcile, especially when it’s too late.
As we reflect on Faith’s story, let it inspire us to reach out to those we may be holding resentment against, to mend broken relationships, and to forgive—before time runs out.
Rest in peace, Simon P. Dennis. Your story will serve as a reminder to us all of the power and necessity of forgiveness.
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